Why is he trying to make me jealous? - The secret psychology (2023)

Some women think that men are trying to push their buttons. However, the truth is just the opposite. If you're wondering, "Why is he trying to make me jealous?" - then this article should help you understand better.

And I will also explain what to do if he tries to make you jealous.

Jealousy is closely related to envy.

Jealousy is one of the strongest emotions. It comes from fear, a deep fear that is related to:

• the fear of being alone
• the fear of being replaced
• fear of being rejected...

Jealousy is like jet fuel to light the fire of passion. It might not be healthy, but it sure gets hot and heavy.

One of the most important things to remember is:

"If you have a man who regularly threatens the security of your relationship with jealousy, you should leave him.quickly.“ -Carlos Cavallo

Absolutely, absolutely, in a hurry. You can't let a man like him cause that kind of emotional turmoil.

Over a long period of time, this behavior will erode your happiness and self-esteem. It will erode your self-esteem. And you can even develop life-threatening illnesses.

I know of at least two people who have died from the emotional and physical complications of this kind of unhealthy relationship. So believe me when I say be careful if you think he does this on purpose and on a regular basis.

a healthy relationshipI have tobuild on a foundation of lasting, healthy and stable love.

The fact is, if you suspecthe is trying to make you jealous, and then you're jealousYes reallyhe is trying to make you jealous on purpose.

Now let's jump right into that.Reasons why he's trying to make you jealous...

Reason #1: He's Testing You

What is "test"? It's when we push buttons on someone to see if they're acting up.

It is a tool for the voter to assess the stalker in romantic dating.

And before we get started here, let's look at something right off the bat:

You test men in your relationships.

you know you do it. All women do it. Because you need to know if a guy is faking his confidence or if he isIn truth!

In the words of an anonymous woman:

"Women test men when we don't know who you really are, or when your words and actions are incongruous, when they don't line up and something about you feels suspicious or 'wrong'."

And you are right to put it to the test!

Because you know that no matter what he says, it's his.BehaviorI always speak the truth.

We test people in our relationships because it's instinctual. It's not a game, it's just a way to get to the very important truth: "Is it sincere? Or is it unreliable?"

This came from a time when we needed to know we could trust the people of our "tribe". In the early days, caveman times, your survival depended on your partner.

Sure, getting divorced is easy these days, but back then it was perhaps the worst situation imaginable. Only without protection and provider? It can even be deadly.

The truth is, most men don't test women on purpose.

(If you haven't seen it yet, you should definitely read my article on why men are testing women here...)

But sometimes he tests you by trying to arouse your jealousy. He does this because he wants to find out how he feels about you.

• Amiga?
• Beuteruf?
• Wife's business?
• Nice friend to hang out with...?

Finally, he wants to know how you manage your emotions. Because jealousy is one of the strongest emotions that women fall victim to very easily. And jealousy will show its true colors when you experience it!

If you're insecure, chances are you'll act out when he tests you for being jealous.

This can be as small as a silent treat or as big as a big shout out in the middle of a crowded restaurant.

And every woman has had her share of embarrassing outbursts that she would like to take back.

Hi guys too! We just forget them faster.

So what do you do when you think he's testing you?

First things first is alwayskeep control🇧🇷 If you let jealousy drive him into insecure or needy behavior, you'll scare him off and he'll likely leave.

When a guy uses jealousy to manipulate you, you might have some doubts about his maturity.

Sometimes we use jealousy in relationships to show that we still have our partner under control. That they still care about us and the connection still exists. This is essentially what happens with jealousy.

Don't get caught up in reacting emotionally to a man who uses his jealousy on you in this way. We'll come back to that in a moment.

Reason #2: He's an immature player...

I know that when we behave in a way that confuses you, most women think that most men do. However, the truth is that most guys don't have the social strategy to play this type of game.

Men are not as perceptive as women when it comes to this type of social game. Men prefer calm and quiet to drama and emotion. *(I assume you've probably experienced this yourself.)

I've seen other articles and experts stating that men get bored and like to shake things up by enacting some jealous drama. This is totally wrong. Men don't do that.

In fact, teenagers don't even do that.

When a man uses jealousy to play games, you'll know right away. Your radar will tell youimmediately.

And you should get rid of that kind of guy.immediately.

Reason #3: You want to know you still have...

Of course, men can fall prey to insecurity. It happens all the time to both sexes.

You want to know what's valuable. He is a good relationship seeker. And, of course, one way to demonstrate this is by demonstrating your potency by attracting another woman.

Let's be honest here:

Men will always have the desire to be desired by many women.

(That doesn't mean he's going to cheat on you with any of these women.)

Women, on the other hand, can just give in to a man's lust. As long as this wish is sincere.

So sometimes a man inadvertently creates jealousy while proving to himself that he still has what it takes to attract women.

Nobody wants to believe that they are romantically undesirable to others...

The easiest way to avoid this is for YOU to simply give him the attention he wants from another woman.

Do it convincingly and enthusiastically and I guarantee you'll win their attention back.

Reason #4: He's a narcissist and a gamer...

Some guys are just looking to validate your ego and confidence. He might not even realize that he's making you jealous on some level. He just wants confirmation.

Guys who are just looking for some bedroom fun might also fall into this category. It doesn't matter what you want to think of him, as long as he doesn't misrepresent himself as wanting a relationship, he's free to do whatever he wants.

Remember, don't blame the guy who told you up front that he didn't want a relationship. Instead, listen to what he says and watch what he does.

This diagnosis of narcissism is also not that common. No matter how much you read about it in magazines and news sites, narcissism is relatively rare.

Uncertainties, on the other hand, are omnipresent.

Reason #5: You have no idea...

There are a lot of guys out there who just don't see the emotional impact of their actions. A guy can talk a little bit with a girl and really enjoy her company. Maybe you don't even want to.

But over there in the corner is his girlfriend. Furious with him for leaving her and giving all that attention to another woman.

From his perspective, he just wanted to talk. Maybe he even wondered why his girlfriend didn't strike up a conversation with him. He doesn't even consider it "disrespectful".

His ignorance is just that, a guy who doesn't have very good emotional intelligence.

You can usually tell if a guy has malicious intent when it comes to things like this. If he seems genuinely confused by your reaction to the whole thing, he probably doesn't understand. He just doesn't have a clue.

In that case, all you have to do is explain it to them.

Most of the time, guys aren't trying to make you jealous. It's just an act of absolute simplicity.

Reason #6: He's trying to break up...

Often we don't want to say the most direct thing. Sometimes we want to break up, but us guys don't know how to say it.

If you're dating this guy and you've been with him for a while and he uses these jealousy tactics on you, he might want to get out of your relationship.

Men generally don't want to face the music when it comes to breaking up with a woman.If he's been with you for a while and it would be too awkward for him to chase you or disappear, he may need to find another way.

Sometimes he starts an argument with you that he can use as an excuse to end the relationship.

Even better, it starts with you going to him with the problem. It makes him look wonderfully innocent, in a weird way.

Then, as the conversation progresses, as you justify the craziness you're experiencing, he makes you the villain. And take the opportunity to argue and say to yourself: "I think we shouldn't see each other anymore."

You'll likely see him use jealousy to trigger "end game" when dating a very immature man.

And the truth is, many women use the exact same trick to get out of a relationship.

Reason #7: He's trying to get a reaction from you...

The most common situation when a guy tries to make you jealous is when he wants to see if you have feelings for him.

A perfect example of this would be a guy who is your friend who you've never dated starts dating someone else. You might not have noticed that he was interested in you because he never said anything.

And to be perfectly honest, he's kind of a coward. I should have asked you out sooner. But maybe he didn't want to spoil the friendship.

So here you are with your guy, and now your boyfriend is suddenly seeing a new woman.

• He could start talking about his relationship with her in graphic detail...
• One might get the impression that this woman doesn't even exist: he invented her.
• He might display them in front of you to try and get a reaction from you.
• He could be hinting at the same person or sleeping with someone else.
• She might even ask you to meet her (talk about weird)
• You blurt out a lot of information about yourself during a conversation. It's explicit and uncensored...
• He asks you for an opinion that suddenly makes you jealous and makes you thinkWhy are you asking me that?
• He is very obvious about faking his own happiness.

what should you do

Well, that brings us to the next section, which are:

Steps to deal with a man who is trying to make you jealous

STEP 1: DON'T REACT!

The best thing you can do is not get jealous.

In fact, for all the reasons I've given here, the best answer is not to give an answer.

Because?

Because when he has a reaction, you reinforce his behavior. You may have heard this before when it comes to raising your children, and it also applies to raising your husband.

And no, I don't compare men to boys, even if sometimes they behave that way. But the principle applies.

If you give him the reaction he expects, he'll keep trying to make you jealous.

You'll also know that when he gets angry, he tries to get a reaction from you because you don't get jealous. When his plan doesn't work, he gets angry.

And you'll also notice that he's paying close attention to your reaction. If he didn't mind, he just went ahead and did what he wanted.

Remember what I said before:Jealousy is the strongest form of love emotion..

If you can make someone jealous, you can emotionally manipulate them. or at least get them to respond in whatever way suits you best.

STEP 2: KNOW HOW YOU FEEL

Whatever the case, first make sure you understand your feelings for him.

If you don't like him and you're not attracted to him, then you shouldn't be jealous. You will probably feel a little awkward and intimidated by his behavior.

On the other hand, if you suddenly find yourself reacting to their scarcity, check yourself in and see if you have a history of chasing men you may not have.

Maybe you really like this guy. Maybe he even had the right to make you jealous by noticing.

Just make sure you know howIs it over therefeel it first! That way, you don't allow your feelings (especially the reactive ones) to push you into a situation you don't want.

STEP 3: IMPLEMENT YOUR CARDS

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At some point you need to sit down with him and talk to him about what he's doing. Yes, you may need to confront his behavior and point it out. Otherwise, you run the risk of him playing these silly little games all the time until he gets an emotional response.

Again, if you really like him, you need to stop him before he makes a mistake in his vulgar attempts to get you emotional for him.

Just explain what you see. As gently as possible, let him know how you feel about whether or not you're interested in him. But you must tell him how his behavior will work against your goal of winning his heart.

There are several reasons why he is trying to make you jealous. None of this means you should be jealous.

Ultimately, he does this because he still feels an emotional connection with you, and that means there might be a chance to win back the love he lost.

How do you get it back?

One way to do this is to be familiar with the phrase "recover". This prayer can help you wrap yourself in his arms again IF you know how.

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